Comparison can steal your content
Hey... not feeling much happy happy ?
Let me tell you, its okay.
Are you having a feeling that you are stuck behind? Or maybe you had a lot of work for the day and you couldn't do that much.
Then read further ...
We often tend to have a lot of expectations from ourselves. We want to go there, we want to do this, we want to buy that, the list is endless for everyone. Once we start our journey to have a life we want, we encounter things which can be a big hurdle in our path.
One of such is : COMPARISON.
Comparison doesn't only start at a big level. People tend to compare even at a very short scale. Almost everyone you meet have an impact on your mind either good or bad.
If their impact is good, you could maybe ridicule yourself a bit for not taking the decisions they took and for the things that they did and you couldn't do.
And if their impact is bad, you'll kinda feel superior and ridicule them.
Everyone falls into this trap.
Moving on like this Comparison becomes a habit. Either You start to neglect your sparkle and be insecure about you feeling like you can't do this, you cant't do that, they do it better.
Or you may start to feel a little over confident about yourselves feeling like nobody does it better than you and everyone else is stupid kinda thing.
In both the situations, you are being the victim of this comparison cycle which is not going to end anywhere.
Even if someone is better than you, it doesn't make you any less.
Understand that you are a unique human being and you have your own way of doing things. Everyone has different strengths and weaknesses and different traits and behavior. So, how could you compare between any two if there grounds are not the same!
But it's normal to feel low sometimes as nothing is ideal and we are human beings with plenty of emotions in our heart. So,when you feel like you are not good enough or someone else is better than you, try to think of at least one good thing that you've done and you felt good about it. Thinking of an achievement may also work.
The important thing to remember is that however you are, you are one of a kind. And nothing could take your essence from you.
Not everyone appreciates the magic they see in others. So, you gotta do it by yourself. Only you can be you. And being you is good. Appreciate the person you are.
And hey, believe in your own magic!
Let me tell you, its okay.
Are you having a feeling that you are stuck behind? Or maybe you had a lot of work for the day and you couldn't do that much.
Then read further ...
We often tend to have a lot of expectations from ourselves. We want to go there, we want to do this, we want to buy that, the list is endless for everyone. Once we start our journey to have a life we want, we encounter things which can be a big hurdle in our path.
One of such is : COMPARISON.
Comparison doesn't only start at a big level. People tend to compare even at a very short scale. Almost everyone you meet have an impact on your mind either good or bad.
If their impact is good, you could maybe ridicule yourself a bit for not taking the decisions they took and for the things that they did and you couldn't do.
And if their impact is bad, you'll kinda feel superior and ridicule them.
Everyone falls into this trap.
Moving on like this Comparison becomes a habit. Either You start to neglect your sparkle and be insecure about you feeling like you can't do this, you cant't do that, they do it better.
Or you may start to feel a little over confident about yourselves feeling like nobody does it better than you and everyone else is stupid kinda thing.
In both the situations, you are being the victim of this comparison cycle which is not going to end anywhere.
Even if someone is better than you, it doesn't make you any less.
Understand that you are a unique human being and you have your own way of doing things. Everyone has different strengths and weaknesses and different traits and behavior. So, how could you compare between any two if there grounds are not the same!
The important thing to remember is that however you are, you are one of a kind. And nothing could take your essence from you.
Not everyone appreciates the magic they see in others. So, you gotta do it by yourself. Only you can be you. And being you is good. Appreciate the person you are.
And hey, believe in your own magic!
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